Although great sex comes down to a lot more that how big he is, some may argue that size matters…
Small, medium, large – penises come in all shapes and sizes. But the question we often get is; what makes sex good, and good sex great? Primary and secondary research all point to technique.
Now, when talking about technique, what we mean goes beyond knowing how to use what you were born with. It involves tapping into your own and partner’s desires to create pleasurable moments.
Without technique, or should we say intimacy, size can sometimes matter – but that’s if all you’re looking for is plain sex. To make sex great, intimacy is key. This looks different for everyone, and you just have to find what works for the two of you.
We’ve listed a few tips below to help you and your partner make the most out of your sexual encounters.
Affectionate touch
Incorporating more touch outside of the bedroom can help you understand your partner better – making you more attuned to their bodies and their reactions. What touch gives them goose bumps? Which ones are ticklish? Knowing this can make you both more at ease with each other’s body and help increase intimacy during sex.
Foreplay
Although ‘quickies’ are great, initiating foreplay before you and your partner have sex can be just the build-up you need. From kissing to talking dirty, foreplay can help ignite your passion and help you turn up the heat. Side tip: Try making condoms part of your foreplay routine.
Switch things up
There are many ways to create intimate and pleasurable moments with your partner. Role play and even various sex positions, like the eye-gazing straddle and the yab yum, can help spice things up from time to time and keep the excitement alive.
Check out: 4 Sex Positions That Help Build Intimacy
As we mentioned before, great sex is different for everyone, and it all comes down to finding what works for you and your partner.